April 17, 2013

Irresponsible Men Real Reason Abortion Continues at a High Level

"Be a real man!"
There has always been so much focus on the women that are going into abortion facilities, but why are they there in the first place?  There are obviously some women who just want to get rid of the "problem" no matter if everyone in their lives are telling them not to have an abortion. Of course, there are some situations where the man doesn't want the woman to have an abortion but she has one anyway. Unfortunately, our system is not set up to protect his rights in the matter.  But I believe that most of those heading in to destroy the life of their unborn child wouldn't be there if they had the support from their boyfriend/husband who, of course, had so much to do with them being in that situation.  These so-called "men" see an easy way out where they won't have to pay child support or even have any permanent ties with the woman that is pregnant.  Some threaten their girlfriend that if she has the child then the relationship is over, but often it doesn't last anyway.  

Then you have the case where the father of the pregnant girl brings her in to have an abortion.  One would think that someone older and supposedly more mature would realize the horror of abortion and, on top of that, he is participating in the death of his grandchild.  Sickening!

As always, what is forgotten in the situation?  The unborn human.  Through the myriad of reasons that abortion occurs, it's obvious that the rights of the unborn are ignored by these men.  

What do others have to say about men and abortion?

Bud Shaver, who is often out in front of the late-term abortion mill in Albuquerque has the following observations:

"Women in our country are abandoned by the courts, by their friends, family and by the men in their lives. If the courts, their friends, family, and the men in their lives would simply affirm and stand for life, then abortion would never be an option. While I am out at the late-term abortion clinic, Southwestern Women's Options, I see more men holding their wives or girlfriends purses, than their hands. The men are only there to drop these women off and pick them up. Men carrying purses just about sums up the men of our country; they have lost their voice and don't know that it is just as much their responsibility to protect these women and their own children from the tragic repercussions of abortion."

Susan Shannon of Short Little Rebel shares her views of abortion and the role men and parents play. Here is a sampling of the article.

"The day I see Christians condemn the MAN as the true perpetrator for abortion is the day I will be satisfied. HE was the loser, the liar and the one who couldn’t be man enough to make that woman feel secure enough in his emotional and financial commitment so that she felt the need to protect herself through abortion. HE was the pursuer. He was the driving force behind the sex to begin with. HE got the ball rolling. It was HIS orgasm, wasn’t it, that caused the pregnancy? It was ultimately HIS responsibility to use protection- and if he didn’t, then HE needs to man up."

"And how about you parents? Why aren’t you teaching your girls and boys about the reality of the sexes? And teach them how best to handle this reality?" 

 "And parents, why didn’t you tell your girls you would financially and emotionally support them no matter what? Why do young girls feel terrified that their parents will think they are failures, whores, and losers if they get pregnant?"

"Here is what I know about women. We are born with a craving need to have and love a baby. NO woman would willingly abort a baby if she had a man who loved her and was willing to do his job and take care of it. That is what I know. Are there some evil women? Yes. But 99% of us are driven by our maternal instinct. We love babies. If we didn’t, human kind could never have survived this long."

The site Evidence For God discusses how the Bible has been ignored.

"Why have men abandoned their responsibilities to women? One of the primary reasons why men have adopted these attitudes is that they were never taught otherwise by their parents. Biblical moral principles and biblical teaching about God's plan for human sexuality have been ignored and claimed to be "old fashioned" and "irrelevant." The result has been a generation of men who think that women are to be manipulated into being their sexual servants and abandoned when no longer useful in that capacity."

"The solution to the abortion problem lies in the obedience of Church to follow the teachings of Jesus and proclaim those teachings to others. The Church4must not be a reflection of society, but a reflection of Jesus Christ. The Church must proclaim the biblical view of human sexuality. The Church must also start to do the two most important commandments:
Jesus replied: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments." (Matthew 22:37-40)
The Church, who claims to love God, could do a lot better job of performing the second greatest commandment."

One of the authors of Raising Real Men wrote the following article entitled Real Men and Abortion.  Here are a few excerpts:

"What does raising real men have to do with abortion?  Everything.

Years ago, we lived in a town with an abortion clinic and often stood outside, offering to help the desperate women who came there. Although everyone had a different story, in many respects they boiled down to this: the baby’s father didn’t take responsibility."

"The really sickening ones are when a mother pulls up with her boyfriend or husband. Her shoulders are down and eyes are sad, but his are determined. He’s going to sacrifice his child on the altar of pleasure and irresponsibility. He’s taking the easy way out. Pay some money, endure her tears, and keep on living for himself.

Ugh. Not the kind of man we want our sons to grow up to be. So, how do we make sure they don’t?

  • Teach your sons that sexuality outside of marriage is wrong. “You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Matt. 5:27-28)
  • Teach your sons that marriage is a good thing. “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord.” (Prov. 18:22)

  • Teach your sons that men must take care of their wives and children. “But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” (1 Tim. 5:8)

  • Teach your sons that life begins at conception. “Then the word of the Lord came to me, saying: ‘Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; Before you were born I sanctified you’ …” (Jer. 1:4-5a)"


    Anonymous said...

    Great post

    fabritastic said...

    This is abolutely true about men. If a man doesn't want to be responsible for his actions, there really isn't anything a woman can do about it except suck it up. If she knows she can't do it all by herself does that make her evil?? Our society would say so. I have spent my whole life being responsible. The men in my life have said they would be there and then abdicated their family obligations, just checked out. Who handles it all after that??? I have. I am sick of irresponsible men and I can tell you my 2 daughter don't need one. What is really sad is that as long as men don't need to be responsible they won't be, but don't make me the evil person because I couldn't take care of one more child they weren't willing to. They have choices in this society, I will never have. At least let me take care of the children I do have in the best way I can and don't require me to have more because some guy wanted to get his rocks off without concequence. This IS how it goes.

    Sue Botchie said...

    This article is so right on. These types of articles send menz rIghts actIvI$t$ into hissy-fits - they just cannot stand the TRUTH, that FACT that way too many "men" are worthless - while, way too many women are out there accomplishing. These MRA whiners claim feminism's the reason for women's success - baloney! Private industry must protect its bottom line, if hiring women didn't pay, they'd hire men.

    Anonymous said...

    This is the best article I've read so far. It hits the nail on the head. Straight to the point, accurately. Couldn't have write it better.

    He was the pursuerer
    It was his orgasm
    Comes abortion,
    Pay some money, endure a bit of tears from girls. Problem solved.

    WayYyyyyy too easy for men to be irresponsible.

    And yes! Women have to endure the consequences. The emotional pain, everything else.

    While the guy just fucks and go. Carry on his life.

    There should be law to govern such irresponsible people.